Hearts in her eyes
There was a photo of an adult out, and one child looked at it and then at her, back and forth. “That's you.”
Heart stickers came out. That child peeled them off without help and put them on the photo.
One went on an eye. “Eye.”
“You've put hearts in my eyes! Boing, boing.”
“Boing boing,” it came back.
When the whole photo was covered in hearts, that child got up, came over and put both arms round her.
“I love you.”
“I love you too.”
And then sat down in front of her and carried on.
Under 3communicationusing their hands
It's like a mirror
An adult had covered the faces over in aluminum foil.
“This one's all shiny!”
“Isn't that the paper you wrap kimbap in?”
“What's missing on this face?”
“There's no eyes or nose or mouth.”
“No eyebrows either, and no ears.”
Then one of them got close to the foil.
“I can see my face in it. It's like a mirror.”
They rubbed at it with a hand to see what it did.
Markers came out, and they looked properly at whoever they were drawing before putting the eyes and the nose and the mouth on. Then hearts went on the finished face.
There was a line printed on the back, and they read it out loud and then copied it letter by letter: be my friend, let's play nicely.
Under 3noticing other childrentexture
As many as you like her
There was a drawing of a friend on the table.
“What's this?”
An adult said they could color her in and put stickers on if they liked, so that child picked out a pencil and colored over the drawing.
“What if you put on as many stickers as you like her?”
“I'm putting on loads.”
And the stars and the hearts went all round her.
Under 3noticing other childrenusing their hands
I love you, balloon
An adult blew the balloons up and each of them took the color they wanted.
They threw them and caught them coming down, and kicked them, and then sat down on one and bounced, up and down, up and down, riding it like a horse. Somebody made the noise of hooves and the others copied.
Then the stickers came over. One child looked at the hearts.
“I love you, balloon.”
And peeled them off, one at a time, all over it.
Under 3pretend playcause and effect
The big ones came off on their own
One child pulled a paper heart out of the art things.
“There's a heart. It says I love you.”
And made one overhead with both arms.
There were heart stickers out too, in different sizes. The big ones came off the sheet on their own. The little ones needed a corner lifting first, and then they came.
Under 3using their hands
The white ones have to go where it's snowing
There was a winter scene to put stickers on. All they had were hearts and circles.
“There's a snowman here!”
“The white ones have to go where it's snowing.”
Another child peeled the same sticker off and put it back down, off and down, and made a snowman out of them, and somebody on a sledge, and named each one.
Under 3noticing other childrencause and effect
There were no eyes left
One child remembered the dragonfly from the day before and folded it again from memory. Another said they didn't know how.
“It's easy.”
And showed them, fold by fold.
Then a bigger square, folded into a triangle: “This one's like a sandwich. Delicious.”
The finished dragonfly went up into the air. “It's a dragonfly airplane.”
The other one wanted eyes on theirs, but the googly eyes had all gone. So the puffy heart stickers went on instead, and the body got done in hearts as well.
3–5noticing other childrenusing their hands
Twinkle twinkle
The paint on the train from the day before had dried, so stickers came out for it.
Stars first. “A star! Twinkle, twinkle, little star.”
Then the hearts. “I'll show mommy and daddy. I love you, mommy and daddy.”
Under 3communicationusing their hands
I'm the mommy one
They had been putting toys into the box the day before, so an adult brought out a picture of the shark family.
“Shall we stick them on the box?”
“I'm the mommy one.”
“I'm the daddy one.”
They each chose their shark, glued it, and pressed it onto the box.
Then the boxes went up in a stack, and hearts went on, and toys went inside to be shaken about.
Under 3using their handspretend play
Come to my school if you miss me
It was nearly the end of the year, so there were pencils and stickers and colored paper out to make each other, and the adults.
“That one looks like her.”
“He's a boy, so his hair's short like this.”
And then, while they worked: “I'm going to miss you.”
“Let's still play together when we're at school. Come to my school if you miss me!”
Later they wrote letters to each other. The ones who couldn't write yet drew instead, or made marks that looked like writing.
“I'm putting loads of my favorite heart stickers on.”
“I'm doing stars.”
3–5noticing other childrencommunication